我们有的，比他们多，多了什么？少了什么?
Here’s a theory…
basically if you see this two hierarchy, so many people stuck between belongingness and aesthetic needs. or is it???
October 16, 2009
August 21, 2009
Check this out!
My dear friends!!
I’m gona be participating in a MUSICAL Performance!!! Can you believe that?? Muahahahaha!!
It’s a Charity performance organize by a group of students that participated in E Major’s 2nd stage training program- Explore. This group of student comes together from different social background, schools for this purpose, TO GIVE BACK TO THE SOCIETY! I should let you know, that all profit they get in this performance will be donated to Malaysia Cancer Association.
I’ll share with you guys about their 5 months training program next time. Social service is just one of things that they learn to contribute during their training 
It’s always great to see people coming together to do something magnificent. The energy that they bring in, the sense of responsibility that they learn, the teamwork that they developed will be reflected by one way or another in this great performance.
A Long Hair 长发。三千年…Remember the 1st day I went to E Zone (performance group). Learned this song “My Thought-我的想念”, the lyric, the melody, sad yet brings out strength in me.”Hero” a GRAND!!! Grand dance I have to say! Been training the dance for so many hours so that we cover all the details. “Turn around”, “You will never know me”,”Listen to the wind” and much much more songs that touches my heard deeply… something I, no no…we would like you all to experience and feel when you come and watch our performance.
So I say, come! Come watch our performance. Come and see what we want to bring to you, come experience the energy, the calmness, the soothing voice, the result…of what ordinary people can create, when we are united.
Have a look at this www.duafi.blogspot.com
If you get bored, and already bought tickets for A Long Hair ^^ do feel free to read about this, interesting theory about human Psychology, a theory by Abraham Maslow (the guy that came out with Hierarchy of need). Jonah Complex, is when we blocked ourselves to achieve greatness…… I believe everyone has Jonah complex, have you realize yours?? Have you challenged yours??
http://www.executive-and-life-coaching.com/jonah-complex.html
July 19, 2009
May 15, 2009
March 28, 2009
busy busy… -.-
Have been so so busy lately, didn’t get much personal time to do my stuff, been trying to use my time as efficient as i can but need to rest sometimes…need to give myself some break time some times..so procrastinate also..
So many things happened since I joined E Major.. :) so much, so fast…in a blink of an eye, I saw so many things, and learned so many things…but didn’t get much time to digest…my head is so full now…”when a glass is full, nothing can be filled in” quite true for me now la~ Remember a dear friend said to me previously, that he is steping away from his comfort zone. and he feels like (figuratively speaking) “standing bare naked infront of a crowd”. I would say that i am now in that kind of position as well…
so little time, so many things to do, so much struggle…so much fear… so much insecurites…no play play…i know i have lots and lots more i needed to improve in, but never thought it was this much…lol…
Got chance i post up some of the pics from the camp and all la..and some recorded songs that i sang~ ^^
E Zone, today CY (trainer) announced roles for the september play… SHOCK!!!! I got a role~ with lots of dialog and song to sing..omg…at 1st i felt excited, scare, also feel that other students should get the part.. but after voice it out to the trainers, I just know that it’s a challenge i should embrace!
Since i heard that it’s better to post the song rather than just the lyrics, hope u guys enjoy the song la~this song i listen to everyday for few weeks liau~ lol..
March 12, 2009
Me? (please vote lo~tyty)
An assessment I did when it’s time for me to sleep…
Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don’t judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren’t necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people’s eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You’re a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you’ll be set for life.
How do you view success:
Success in your career is not the most important thing in life. You are content with what you have and think that being with someone you love is more than spending all of your precious time just working.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don’t ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
Who is your true self:
You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
March 11, 2009
True?
“We the unwilling, led by the unknowing are doing the impossible for the ungrateful.” – Yong Chun, 2009
How many people keep working in jobs they are not happy/satisfied with, and are scared to make changes because reasons like “building a good resume”/ the pay is good?/ cant live with a job i like but don’t pay the mortgage? (I know and understand..some people do have plans for their future and they need to endure somethings they don’t like now to make sure they can get something they want in the future…no comments bout that)
Aren’t this very true for many… How many life have been lived without a dream? How many had abandoned their dreams and goals because they thought it will not happen or because their life just didn’t go that direction?
Don’t get me wrong, not being judgmental here. Sometimes I worry too much…for the future, for people, for the society?(ppl screaming:” wtf you think you know?! worry for society…blaburing conts~LOL)…jk jk…but won’t it be great, if we really had the chance to pursue what we wanted…??
March 3, 2009
how…
當你愛一個人的時候，愛到八分絕對剛剛好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下兩三分
用來愛自己。如果你還繼續愛得更多，很可能
會給對方沉重的壓力，讓彼此喘不過氣來，完
全喪失了愛情的樂趣。”
Read this from a friend’s blog, believe that everyone read bout it before right? Think it’s true? Got practice it in your life? LOL…
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Sometimes you feel
So insecure
Nothing is what it seems
It’s all one big blur
Everyone you get close to
Is somehow pushed away
And you start to question
Every single word you say
Everyone is around you
But it feels like you’re alone
It’s a crazy feeling
Unlike any one you have ever known
People try to help out
But there’s nothing they can do
It’s deeper than that
It’s something inside of you
Everyone has their problems
It’s just how you work though
Some you need help with
Some you wish you never knew
Made quite some decisions for my life since I started working, lots more happened…Some time feels so insecure bout my future that I’m scare to move forward, but I know I have to walk a head, move forward as I have things I need to and want to do in my life.
Another new begining..
Left a company and started working in a new one today. Read more about E Major Creativity.
E Major Creativity, is a training company that provide/organize training for people from Age 7 to 68 (oldest that attended before). Training focus on self-discovery, which would lead to the development of 4 skills that is essential in determining their success in life- Communication, Decision making, Problem Solving and also team work. These are the skills needed to build self confidence and more importantly, the believe in oneself. The believe that they can achieve their goal and dreams in life.
The training will also helps in helping participants in understanding their own character, cooperation, connection of music vs emotions, developing leadership qualities, family bonding, and equally if not more important, eradicating something we called Assume Constraint (maybe will talk about it other day, just maybe…haha).
March 1, 2009
things we sometimes forget…
Friendship
- “A friend is one who walks in when others walk out” -Walter Winchell
- Sometimes you put walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.” – Unknown author
- Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather is one of those things that give value to survival.” – C. S. Lewis
- The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but to reveal to him, his own.” -Benjamin Disraeli
- Misfortune shows those who are not really friends.” – Aristotle
- “When friends stop being frank and useful to each other, the whole world loses some of its radiance.” – Anatole Broyard
- Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty. ~Sicilian Proverb
- The language of friendship is not words but meanings. ~Henry David Thoreau
- The essence of true friendship is to make allowance for another’s little lapses. ~David Storey
- The friend within the man is that part of him which belongs to you and opens to you a door which never, perhaps, is opened to another. Such a friend is true, and all he says is true; and he loves you even if he hates you in other mansions of his heart. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Wisdom of the Sands, translated from French by Stuart Gilbert
- Friendship is a sheltering tree. ~Samuel Taylor Coleridge
- We are keenly aware of the faults of our friends, but if they like us enough it doesn’t matter. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic’s Notebook, 1960
- The best time to make friends is before you need them. ~Ethel Barrymore
- A friend can tell you things you don’t want to tell yourself. ~Frances Ward Weller
- The friend who holds your hand and says the wrong thing is made of dearer stuff than the one who stays away. ~Barbara Kingsolver
- Probably no man ever had a friend that he did not dislike a little. ~E.W. Howe
- Friends are relatives you make for yourself. ~Eustache Deschamps
- Without wearing any mask we are conscious of, we have a special face for each friend. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes, Journals, 1843
- Men kick friendship around like a football, but it doesn’t seem to crack. Women treat it like glass and it goes to pieces. ~Anne Morrow Lindbergh
- I don’t need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better. ~Plutarch
friends, so much to say bout them. some friends just take the title but do nothing, some never bother, some are as lost as you are..but there are a few that tells you the truth, ask you how has you been when your life sucks, and gives support to you even if you didn’t do all the best decisions. We choose how we live our life, we choose how to make decision by our own.
somethings to ponder about…
As a friend…
Aren’t we suppose to respect decision? Aren’t we suppose to support? If it’s a bad decision, won’t the friend need your support even more? Aren’t we suppose to trust? Aren’t we suppose to care? Aren’t the ones that have a better view be looking out for those that are in the box? Aren’t we suppose to understand?
